An Interview with Kathy Powell

Today it’s my privilege to interview Kathy Powell —  daughter of God, wife, mother and minister. Kathy is the wife of our Pen Florida District Council Secretary, Rev. Steve Powell.  Get to know this precious lady. ~Deanna

Deanna: Kathy, it’s such an honor to have you share with us today.  Let’s start with where it all began. Where were you born?

Kathy: Chicago, Illinois

Deanna: And where did you grow up?

Kathy: The inner city of Chicago.

Deanna: What was your family like, growing up?

Kathy: I am the oldest of 4 girls. I am a full blooded, 100% Slovak. Both my parents are full Slovak.  My mom came to the states from Czechoslovakia when she was 3 years old. I was raised very European. My parents are born again Christians and I’ve been blessed with a Godly heritage. We attended the Stone Church in Chicago, where my dad was a board member.  We never missed a church service or revival service and it seemed like we lived at church. When the church doors were open, we were there.  God, church and music were vital components to our home.

Deanna: How did you come to know Jesus?

Kathy: I really don’t remember. I accepted Him as a very little girl. I don’t have an actual date. I’ve always loved the Lord, but my true life changing encounter with the Lord was while in high school and one Sunday my pastor asked those that felt called into full time ministry to come to the altar.  I didn’t know what I was going to do in the ministry but I knew I would be a minister’s wife.

Deanna: How did you meet your husband?

Kathy: Central Bible College in Springfield, Missouri.   My roommate knew him and we all hung around together.

Deanna: Can you share with us a bit about your dating and engagement?

Kathy:  Steve and I were both dating someone else from our home churches.  We met each other through my college roommate and were all friends for 1 year. Then the ones we each were both dating had finally told us they never felt called into full time ministry so we broke up with them. (unbeknown to either one of us) After our heartbreaks were over, we started dating each other for 1 year and then became engaged for 1 year. We knew each other for 3 years before we got married.

Deanna: And where did you get married?

Kathy: Stone Church in Chicago, Illinois

Deanna: What is married life like, today?

Kathy: After 40 years I am still in love with my husband and enjoy doing things with him. I want to grow old with him.  I volunteer at his office just to be near him. Usually, Friday night is date night going to Ybor City for dinner and a movie.

Deanna: That is wonderful and an example for us all. Can you tell us a bit about your children and grandchildren?

Kathy: 3 children and 4 grandchildren. Taylor is 9 and Drew is 6 and they live in Indianapolis. Landon is 5 and lives in Lakeland and Bryson is 3 and lives in Heaven.  They are the love of my life. Thank the Lord for Face Time!  You noticed I really didn’t talk much about my 3 kids because they are over shadowed by my grands, now.

Deanna: What is the most important lesson you’ve learned as a mom?

Kathy: Many things!

  1. When it comes to your children, it’s not how you start the race, it’s how you finish your race.
  2. As a mom, if your knees aren’t calloused, you may need to pray more.
  3. The only thing I can take to heaven with me is my family.

Deanna: What was your first ministry assignment together with your husband?

Kathy: Associate/Youth pastors in Morris, Illinois for 2 years.

Deanna: And what other ministry assignments did you have before coming to the district office?

Kathy: We pastored 2 of the greatest churches in the nation each one for 10 years: First Assembly of God in Hammond, Indiana and Bethel Temple Assembly of God in Tampa, Florida.

Deanna:  What was the most surprising thing for you, about being a minister’s wife?

Kathy:

  1. Can be very lonely. That’s why Steve is my very best friend.
  2. How much people look up to me as an example.  I remind them that I do the things I do not because I’m in the ministry but I do what I do because first, I love the Lord and am a Christian and want to serve.
  3. How busy you are. It’s not a 9-5 job. You must always be protective of your time for God, self and family and keep a healthy balance between family and ministry.

Deanna:  If you could give just one piece of advice to a brand new minister’s wife, what would it be?

Kathy: Be yourself and NO ONE ELSE! Be what God created YOU to be. Be confident in your gifts, talents and abilities and be an example of Christ.

Deanna: What do you like to do for fun?

Kathy: Garage Sales, being with family and relaxing on the beach listening to the crashing waves.

Deanna: Are you a morning or a night person?

Kathy: I’m a morning person and love to watch the sunrise.

Deanna: What is your favorite color?

Kathy: I don’t have one. I pretty much love all colors, but I can tell you what color I don’t like and that is the color orange.

Deanna:  What is your favorite food?

Kathy: Slovak food which would be Polish sausage, dumplings, haluski, cabbage rolls, pierogies, poppyseed cake and sauerkraut soup.

Deanna: What’s your favorite dessert?

Kathy: Anything coconut!

Deanna: What is your favorite TV show?

Kathy: I don’t watch much TV.  But I love The Voice, Call the Midwife and Downton Abbey.

Deanna: Do you enjoy hospitality?

Kathy: I love to entertain and throw a party and love watching it grow into a production. Decorating is one of my passions, whether it’s a party or home decor. .I love Paula Deen and cooking. Even though I barely cook anymore (‘cause we’re never home) when I do get the chance, I go all out.

Deanna: What are some of your “favorites” in life?

Kathy: I love BGMC, singing, playing the piano, Ballroom dancing, cruising, hydrangeas, sewing, redecorating, cooking and even cleaning. I enjoy reading – favorites are the Bible, Nicholas Sparks, The Shack, Redeeming Love, mystery novels; As far as music – Jazz, Blues, Big Band; Warm and Fuzzy movies like Hallmark Channel Stuff @ Christmas Time, White Christmas. And…I believe a girl can never have enough BLING BLING and shoes!

Deanna: Do you collect anything?

Kathy: Precious Moments, Rockwell plates and Nutcrackers. I love old vintage things and antiques. Garage sales are the best. One of these days, my dad and I will write a book on “Garage Sales for Dummies.”

Deanna: What is one of your greatest dreams?

Kathy: I dream about growing old and being surrounded by my family and friends. They have all been a blessing to me in ways they will never know.

Deanna: Tell us some things people may not guess, about you…

Kathy: I can still play the accordion. I modeled clothes for Montgomery Ward. I am a spelunker and would do it again if I was a few years younger.  I love skydiving and just did that with my daughter 3 years ago. I also love to Indian arm wrestle. I like even more when I win.

Deanna: Wow!!. What don’t you do? Amazing! I want you to bring the accordion in to the district office one day. Just sayin’! Is there anything else you’d like to share with us today?

Kathy: I am an Assembly of God credentialed licensed minister and I love the word of God, but get frustrated that I don’t read it more than I do. My favorite Bible verses are:  Joshua 1:9, Proverbs 17:22, Jeremiah 33:3

  1. Favorite Chapter in the Bible: James 1
  2. Whenever you do something – do it well and first rate!
  3. I thank God for the struggles in life because I know there’s life in the struggles.
  4. When we realize ‘we can’t’, that’s when ‘God can’.
  5. When you feel you’re drowning and need help, don’t wait. Seek counsel.
  6. “I would rather be a ‘no body’ in the world, but be a ‘somebody’ to my kids.” Man in the Mirror by Patrick Morley
  7. “Preach the Gospel as much as possible BUT if necessary – use words.” Frances of Assisi
  8. What happens “in you” is better than what happens “to you”.
  9. Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever. “Lance Armstrong”

Deanna: Priceless! Wonderful words of wisdom. Thank you so much, Kathy, for sharing with us today. You are so appreciated and loved.

When Registration Makes You Want to Pull Your Hair Out!

Out of breath and wheeling my suitcase to the front desk at the hotel, I pulled the confirmation papers out of my purse to prepare to check in. It was the Pen Florida Women’s Fall Breakaway a few years ago and as our group leader, I was preparing to get the room keys for the 40 or so ladies that I had brought with me from our church.

Standing next to me in line was a leader from another church and we talked for a few moments about how excited we were about the conference. “I’m so glad you’re here!” I said. “I know it takes a lot to get your ladies registered, but here you are!”

“Oh, no…it actually took me absolutely nothing to register them,” she said. “I didn’t do registration this year. We’re all adults. I told them registration was on their own. I decided not to go through the frustration of  organizing a group from the church anymore. If anybody from our church wants to come, they can handle it on their own.”

“Oh…okay…” I said haltingly. “And how many are here with you?”

“Well, just two of us. It’s just myself and one other lady from the church…” she said. “But that’s okay. God has here who he wants here this year.”

Okaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay. [Face palm.]

Let’s talk, gals.

Let me say right up front that for those of you who are pastors’ wives or women’s ministries leaders, I know the road you walk. I’ve been doing this for 27 years and I’m STILL doing it. (I’m still a pastor’s wife and leader in the local church.) I realize how much effort it takes to be the one handling registration.

A few days ago I asked for a response on Facebook from pastors’ wives and women’s ministries leaders about what their frustrations are regarding registering women for conferences in general.

The responses

  • “They complain about money.”
  • “They say they have so many things going on…”
  • “They don’t get back to to me by the deadline.”
  • “They have ‘Goldilocks Syndrome'”…
  • “Some complain that they don’t want to drive too far.”
  • “Others say they’d rather travel further away.”
  • “Some say there are too many activities on the conference agenda.”
  • “Others say there aren’t enough.”
  • “Everyone has different perspectives!”
  • “You can’t please them all…”
  • “They sign up, then back out at the last minute.”
  • “They sign up, back out, and expect you to find them a replacement.”

The registration person often “catches” all of these complaints and frustrations.

I get it!

I really do.

So, what do I want you to know?

First, I want you to know that we’re here for you. We in the PF Women’s office as well as our experienced team of reps stand ready to give you encouragement and wisdom on this. (As well as a safe place to rant, if needed. LOL) Just reach out. We’re here. And we’ll give you practical help to get your group here.

Email us at women@penflorida.org and we will help you as well as connect you with your rep.

What is the value in making THRIVE a priority?

  • When the time for service comes and I see my ladies gathered at the altar, tears streaming down, crying out to God – IT’S WORTH IT ALL!!
  • When a woman or girl is saved, filled, healed and changed, it’s worth ANYTHING I had to go through as a leader.
  • You can’t put a price tag on a changed life, nor is any investment of time and effort not worthwhile.
  • When a marriage is restored because of something life-changing a woman heard or experienced at the conference, it’s worth it.
  • When our group gathers around at the close of the conference and prays together in unity with strongholds broken — it’s worth it!
  • When they can’t stop talking about what happened at the conference for months or years afterwards IT’S WORTH IT.

I can identify with the leader who, when in the midst of handling the registration says, “I’m just not going to do registration again next year. I don’t need the frustration of having to organize.” I know, I really do.  I’m an organized person and sometimes the way people respond (or their lack of response) gets on my last nerve too.

BUT WAIT!!!

This is exactly how the enemy wants us to respond. Because he knows people’s very lives and destinies are at stake.

And yes, we can do “our own” church conference or retreat, but there’s something unique – something divine about going beyond ourselves…beyond “just us” and reaching out to other sisters in the body of Christ.  There’s something to be said for gathering with sister-churches and worshipping together.

Unless a leader in the local church cares enough to handle the group registration for a conference, not many from that church are going to come. And it’s possible nobody from your church will attend.

Will someone press beyond the challenges so that God-ordained breakthrough will happen in hearts and lives?

What miracles may not take place in a woman or girl’s life unless somebody takes responsibility to get them there?

Will someone miss out on what would have been the most critical moment of their life?

Will connections in their life take place that God has ordained for them?

It’s about LEADERSHIP.

John Maxwell says, “Everything rises and falls on leadership.”

It’s really true.

Your ladies are dependent upon your leadership.

Can a group of them go to THRIVE without your help?

Technically yes.

But is it likely? No.

It’s as simple as that.

Pastors’ wife, women’s ministries leader — your leadership is valued and critical.

Please know, we are praying for you.

We honor you.

In fact, we’re going to honor you personally right at the outset of THRIVE. Count on it.

And it WILL be worth it all, at the altars of THRIVE.

~Deanna

I Laughed. I Cried. I Changed.

July 5, 2014

by PF Women’s Director,

Deanna Shrodes

If I cry, there’s a really good reason.

Some women cry and don’t know why.

Not me.

I always know why.

It means something realllllly good is happening.

Or, something bad.

Or, the Holy Spirit is touching me in a profound way.

The latter happened over ten years ago at an Assemblies of God Women in Ministry Conference. Susanne Cox was one of the speakers. As she shared her life story which has now been chronicled in the book, Call it Incredible, I wept. And wept. And wept some more.

I also laughed.

A lot!

And most of all, I changed.

Coming home changed from a Christian women’s conference is exactly what should happen. And this was definitely one of those times. I called my husband from the conference and said, ‘”Babe, we need to bring Susanne to our church in Tampa!” We did, that same year. And what a weekend we had!

Over the weekend, Susanne and I became dear friends, and our heart connection has blossomed over the past decade. This seems to be the case with so many of the pastors, pastors’ wives and women’s leaders that she meets.  Susanne will move powerfully in the altars and then stop you in hallway to give a hug, or chat over a cup of coffee. She’s as real as can be!  I marvel at the way she reaches people.

Week after week I notice the reports on her Facebook status updates of lives changed all over the world — women saved, filled with the spirit, and healed!

We are so blessed to have Susanne Cox with us for the entire THRIVE (Breakaway) weekend!!!

One thing I feel strongly about is that our teen girls be in services with us at the conference. We will have breakout sessions and separate activities for them, but I believe they need to experience ALL of the main services with us. Girls and women of every generation experiencing Pentecostal power together is going to be UNFORGETTABLE!

We are in for more than a “treat” or some light inspiration. We are in for a transformation!

Do everything you have to do to get there — and bring your daughters! Everything you need to register is right here at this link! If you have any problems downloading the information, or have a question please don’t hesitate to email at women@penflorida.org or call us at (863) 683-5726, ext 232. We’re here to help!

I love you and can’t wait to share the weekend with you. The best is yet to come!

Much love,

Deanna